Barry Bonds 756 - continued
First of all, I don’t see why there’s any controversy. Haul out the official MLB rule book, find out if you can prove that Bonds broke any rules, and if so, apply the punishments that the book states. Maybe you need to hold a hearing; if that’s the case; so be it; make it happen. If he didn’t break any rules, or no one can prove it, or the rule book doesn’t provide adequate punishment, then I guess it’s the end of the story, and we can lobby MLB to change the rules, but beyond that we should probably shut up.
But beyond that, I still have a few things on my mind. For the rest of the post, let’s just assume that Bonds has been taking steroids – I know that hasn’t been proved, but if he’s innocent of those charges then the whole subject is moot. So let’s just take his steroid use as given for the sake of argument.
People want to see Bonds punished because he is a poor role model, and sets a bad example for kids. I see where they’re coming from (although personally it’s sounds pretty funny to call a hard-drinking, smoking, womanizing, overeating guy like Babe Ruth a role model for aspiring athletes). But I would say that the example that Bonds provides is valuable and illuminating, if not praiseworthy.
As I said in my post on Bill Walsh, I like to look at sports as a reflection on society. Does Bonds’ story show that you can cheat, get away with it, and succeed? Yes. Is that the way society works? Certainly, and it’s important to understand that. Does that mean that cheating is good? No; it just means that we can’t have expectations that cheating is always caught and punished proportionately. I don’t want my children to have those expectations, for several reasons:
i) If your only reason for not cheating is to avoid punishment when caught, then what happens to you when you find out that most cheating is never found out? There’s a significant risk that you will try it, and like it.
ii) There are plenty of people who subscribe to the attitude of “if you’re not cheating, you’re not trying hard enough.” Chances are, at some point in your lifetime, you will work for one of them, or be on a team run by one of them. What will you do in that case? Will you be able to keep your integrity and still succeed on the job/make the team? If so, how?
iii) Throughout your life, other people will try to cheat you. Sometimes they will be people you don’t know (telemarketers, computer scammers, advertisers); sometimes they will be competitors in sports, school, jobs, wherever. The first step in defending yourself is to understand that cheating exists and often succeeds.
Another thing I want my children to understand: there are two moral rules that many people in our modern society subscribe to:
- It’s the letter of the law, not the spirit, that matters. Anything that’s not explicitly forbidden is acceptable.
- If a law isn’t monitored for compliance, then you don’t have to follow it.
Now I don’t really like either of those attitudes, and although I don’t always succeed, I try not to take them. But it’s important to realize that they exist.
I don’t agree with the way a lot of the world works, but I find my life is better if I can understand and accept the world as it is. When my children are a bit older, then we can follow the decisions of famous athletes and see how they turn out, for better or for worse. I will try to teach my morality to my kids, and teach them what I know about how the world works, and then they can make their own choices about what is right and wrong, and how they want to lead their lives.
Getting back to sports as morality story, I love it when the right thing happens and the good guys win. When the bad guys win, I wouldn't say I like it, but I accept it, and try to learn what that teaches me about the world.